In many homes, divorce is caused by the "battle
between the sexes". To understand the problem, one must remember that modern
American woman is freed. During childhood and youth, the American girl is given
freedom and education which is equal to a boy's. After completing school, she is
able to get a job and support herself. She doesn't have to marry for financial
security. She considers herself an independent, self-sufficient person. She
wants a husband whom she can respect. She wants a democratic household in which
she has a voice in making decisions. When a husband and wife are able to share
decision-making, their marriage is probably closer, stronger, and more
satisfying. Otherwise, the couple is likely to wind up in the divorce
court.
When a couple gets divorced, the court usually requires
the man to pay his former wife a monthly sum of money. If the couple has
children, they usually remain with the mother, and the father is expected to pay
for their support.
Although divorce is quite common in the
United States, 80 percent of those who get divorced remarry. The remarriages
allow thousands of people, especially children, to enjoy family life again, but
at the same time many troubles have arisen. A well-known American joke tells of
a wife calling to her second husband, "Quick, John! Come here and help me! Your
children are beating up our children!"